This Valentine's Day we asked conductor Peter Mark and composer Thea Musgrave about the joys and challenges of sharing their profession and their life — plus, top tips for long-lasting love.
Did music play a role in your love story? If so, how?
Peter: Music is what brought us together, and gave us a role in each other’s musical lives which continues to expand our own perspectives in new directions. Now almost 50 years later, it continues to sustain, solidify, nourish and refresh our relationship
What is a piece of classical music that is especially romantic to both of you, and why?
Thea’s From One To Another (for viola and electronic tape) was among the first pieces she wrote for me. It enabled us to get to know and live with each other in a profound, intimate and unique way — and was followed by her Viola Concerto, her radio opera The Occurrence at Owl Creek Bridge and some of her major operas (A Christmas Carol, Harriet, the Woman Called Moses, and Simon Bolivar), which went from commission to stage performance at Virginia Opera.
How do you get through long periods of working closely together (if you do)?
By focusing on own responsibilities, and respecting each other’s boundaries professionally. And then carrying the communication to a more intimate level privately.
What is your top tip for long-lasting love?
Choose the right partner for you, and remember why you chose them when things get rough!